A ton of great feedback here, thank you everyone.
The land is essentially flat as a pancake. I think there may be a 2 foot variance across 10 acres. I have a pretty good idea where the water goes when we have too much, it's almost like a 200 foot wide 1 inch deep flow headed in 2 directions. aka, not much real run away from this road I'm going to build.
What I seem to be learning here is I probably should take off the black dirt layer, but keep it around.
Put on a good 8 inches of 3" limestone, probably over fabric just for fun. Fabric may just be a waste of $400. I'll ask an actual local road builder (same guy who thought I should take the clay down and build a swimming pool for the 3" limestone). I'll see what he thinks of fabric just for fun.
Then, go over with maybe more.. 5 or 6 inches of 3/4" limestone.
When I have that in place, use the set aside black dirt to slope up to the gravel on both sides.
Sounding better?
Thanks, -Daron