We built our 3k+ sf house completely off grid, but my only thoughts regarding "green" we're ones of annoyance at the the marketing crap.
We had an unofficial estimate of $20K to possibly bring power from existing line. Of course that would only guarantee we'd have an ever increasing bill from one of the most expensive electric companies.
Realizing the term off grid seems to vary, here's what it means for us. We have absolutely no physical hookups to any utility:
All electricity is produced by 10kw solar with generator backup.
LP gas service via 250g tank
Cell phone only
Dish TV
Wireless internet via radio
Water supply is catchment system of 4 tanks of 4k gal each, another 3k tank at cottage.
Waste system is cesspool.
As for the house:
Built of R20 value SIPs, walls and roof
Situated to take advantage of breezes and sun
No heat other than LP fireplaces
No AC, but ceiling fans.
Appliances are standard type from Sears - Fridge, freezer, DW, washing machine, beer tap, 4 dorm size fridges, 4 microwave ovens, plus another fridge, washer, and microwave at cottage. Also an assortment of the usual small kitchen appliances. 2 plasma TVs and 3 led type
Kitchen range and cottage stove are LP, 4 on demand LP HW heaters, both dryers are LP, so is the grill.
Water pump is 240v 3/4hp at house, 120v 1/2hp at cottage.
In ground pool is 39k gal and a combination of 1 48v DC pump with own solar panels and 2 240v pumps.
Hot Tub is off the shelf from Costco with 2 pumps and 4kw heater.
My point being, we may be off grid, but we live a pretty normal, civilized manner. Our spiral bulbs are slowly being replaced with led. We don't run major electric appliances at night or during periods of poor sun. Our average electric use is about 25kw per day.
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