Good advice, and exactly how I've always felt about it, too. Last thing on my mind is to escalate a confrontation into a MWAG situation. Things can go from "I feel like a bada$$" to "Why am I in handcuffs" way too quickly. Something I always compared it to was:
"Speak softly, but carry a big stick."
Nice to know I'm not the only one.
Personally, the thread of this post seems kind of pathetic in the grand schemes of life.
Sometimes I've been played, but sometimes I've been given more than any money could repay by helping. Learned a long time ago it's not what the people do with what you give, but that you gave because it's the right thing you do.
Don't get me wrong, I just don't dump money onto the street for anyone asking, but I have done some overnight stays in shelters. Everyone on the street isn't a con artist as this thread my have you believe.
****, I'd rather give money to someone on the street for any asking other than the fricken telemarketers I get, and that's including the NRA. That said, I do have a lot more fun with telemarketers, even those from the NRA. My boys get a hoot out of that LOL
In the end, IMO it's only for but the grace of God to be where I'm at today. I understand some people do play others for fools, but by the same token, Jesus didn't tell his disciples about the Samaritan who didn't fall for one of the oldest tricks in the book. If you foil a panhandler, great for you, just hope you decide to actually help where help may be needed.