GirlWhoWantsTractor
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I was lucky enough to be brought up by parents that took the exact opposite approach.
As a couple of examples; my allowance in the late 80's, was $3 ... per month. Now, to get that, I had to keep a spiral bound notebook that was a ledger of (1) every penny I earned (I was working a summer job starting at 12), (2) every penny I spent (I could only spend 50% of what I earned. The other 50% went into the bank for college), and (3) my cash on hand. If the ledger didn't balance each month, I got no allowance.
I HATED this as a kid. Looking back it was probably one of the best financial lessons my parents could have taught me.
You are very lucky. Many of us got no lessons, other than "what not to do," on how to handle money.
I think it's easy to attach simplistic labels and emotions to some of these concepts, especially "debt." Sure, a lot of people are "drowning in debt". Looks like Mr. Ramsey helps people get out of it and that's great.
Emotions (no accident the #1 cause of marital arguments is money). People who have had bad experiences with debt often vow "never again." Or their parents handled money in a certain way, they resent their parents, so they vow to do the exact opposite. Or they seem to constantly need the "high" of new purchases. My point here, is that there are often a lot of emotions around money. And that is a bad thing, cuz it can lead you into irrational decisions.
Lot of good points in this thread. CC's can be a blessing or a curse. For me, between the biz and personal, the use of the cash-back cards paid in full every month means I earn around $5,000 cash back every year and pay zero interest. I almost never buy stuff I don't need. I make sure my "wants", like a nice holiday every year, or a meal out, are things I can afford and add to my quality of life. And certainly a business is a whole 'nother ball-game compared with personal finances. Different rules; different strategies.
I think a lot of the back-and-forth here is because you need different strategies depending on your specific financial situation. Certainly, all of those folks who can't handle a $400 unexpected expense should be SAVING, SAVING, SAVING. A nice plump savings account/rainy day fund is truly job one! If my bank account was empty, there would be no meals out, no new clothes, eating beans-and-rice, until that changed. I see these people all the time here, driving around in vehicles with broken tail-lights, or expired registrations. Racking up $100's of dollars in tickets, fines, and court costs. There is an obvious solution, even for them, but they either can't see it, or won't do it.
But say you've saved and managed to sock away $5k, and something big happens like a hospital bill, or a hurricane hits, and after insurance you're left with around $5k in costs. Do you gut your savings account by paying cash? Or finance it and keep your savings? Again, it DEPENDS, but I think the person would need to do a lot of figuring with pencil and paper, and my point is, the right decision might be slightly different for different people.
Anyhow, I hope everyone here is well on the way to prosperity using whatever strategy makes them feel fiscally responsible and "at peace." Can't argue with that, and I didn't mean to.