Creating the flat edges allowed the jaws to shear the corners off...pipe wrench jaws are designed to grip (round) pipes in an "arch" configuration which gives it exceptional strength to hold or apply torque...
I would at least try putting the jaws of a properly sized, quality wrench on the existing threads and not the damaged section of the plug...
Hang in there, you will get this done...we're all pulling for you...a couple of busy contributors to the thread may show some postpartum depression symptoms when you do get the plug out but you should have nothing to feel guilty about...we know you cando this...