Dad headed for the tall grass when I was just a kid, but my father in law was like a father to me. We cleared land, planted CRP, reforested over sixty acres. He loved wildflowers, so we planted about six acres along the road My sons began working with us when they were olld enough and helped plant even more trees.
He passed away January 2000, behind the wheel of his tractor.
I'm fortunate to have all our kids close. My wife fixes Sunday dinner for anyone who drops in. My wife comes from a really close knit family and I sure have adapted to it.
Addendum: I remember going to my in laws one day and my father in law had just turned fifty. He got a funny look on his face and said, "My life is half over. I didn't see the alarm, it seemed pretty old to me too...my son's birthday is July 4th; yep he'll be fifty.