Thanks Sig. there is definitely a generational/life experience gap in being able to talk to people with the younger officers. They usually learn petty quickly to use their words. Some never get it, some excel.
No, thank you. Although I may fear the law, I also respect men who wear a badge and actually try to do good, and not talk down to people, but talk with people in their line of work.
I live in a small rural town. I say high to all the LEO's in my area when I see them. Some I know from shooting with. Good guys IMO. The local elected sheriff actually seems like a decent guy as well (the office went out of their way for boy scouts on many local occasions).
Honestly, in defense of the law enforcement profession, it seems the bigger the population density, the more screwed up people are. The way I figure it, it half the population are idiots, with only a county population of 30k, you're only dealing with 15k worth of idiots. Issue is, when the population gets over 100k in any particular area, you have a greater chance of dealing with an idiot if you're working as a LEO.
In my profession I try to stay away from idiots as it makes my life a lot easier in the long run. Working as a law enforcement officer, you HAVE to work with idiots

The added reality, and my fear for my own son if he wants to go into law enforcement is if you try to be good with dealing with people, a slight mistake on your end could cost you your life dealing with a scumbag.