Curly,
I am a small farmerthat grew up on a farm in NC and a civil engineer. I have two Kubota tractors and a bobcat. I would not use galvanized pipe. It will eventually rust out. With that many acres flowing into it, and depending on your local rainfall, I'd suggest at least a 24 inch pipe. I'd consider a concrete pipe. Usually if there is a concrete pipe manufacturer near you you can go get seconds/culls at a reduced cost directly at the factory. If you put a flared transition on each end you'll greatly help the flow. A 24 inch pipe with flared ends will carry as much as a 30 inch without flares. It makes the flow laminar rather than turbulent. If you have front end forks or a backhoe on your tractor you can place the concrete pipe with no problem. The loads you quoted are not an issue for plastic or concrete at the depths you have . Once you have a foot or more of cover that usually isn't a problem. Use dirt to backfill, not sand or rock. You don't want water to be able to flow outside the pipe. Get the joints as tight as possible so leaks won't wash out the pipe.
Larry
He started this post in 2006 and hasn't posted in over 3 years... hopefully by now he has his road finished. He went with plastic, it would be interesting to see how well it stood up.
If he sized and bedded it properly then chances are that it's still there. We ue mostly plastic now and if they're put in properly they are fine. The biggest problem is teaching grader operators how to keep from putting all of the road surface into the ditch.