Oaktree
Super Member
Very true, I've done the same myself. What I was referring to were less adaptable skills. For example, last century here in northern New England there were a lot of good paying jobs to be had in paper mills, or related industries. Those, for the most part are gone, and for someone who may have started there right out of high school running a machine in a mill was all they knew. Not always skills that translate well without a lot of re-training.It's a really good feeling to know you can make a major career change if you have to. Of course, it's better to do it out of want then to be forced into it, but it's very doable. Don't underestimate your own abilities to adapt and learn a new trade at a later age.
You and I seem to have followed a similar career path, one required skills that were a bit more portable.
Not arguing with you, I'm sure it is difficult. But some of these things need to be taught, and if parents don't do it who will?Its real easy to hypothesize that, but when you really are a parent of children, its a MUCH more difficult balancing act than you have said.
One way to turn off a group of parents is to try to tell them what parenting is like when you have no children of your own.
It ain’t easy. In fact, it is one of my most difficult undertakings of my life.
Mine were quite strict, maybe overly so. Sure didn't put up with much BS from me or my siblings. Hated it at the time, but looking back I'm glad they did, well most of it anyway.