CloverKnollFarms
Elite Member
I worry that we think we are loving people by relieving them of the consequences of their choices.
There is still a consequence. It's partially transferred to someone else, and in a way, it changes the person who was relieved of it. Instead of them learning and being strengthened through adversity, they learn they can simply not be held responsible. Any growth they would have had, is stolen, and their behavior is unlikely to change.
Some call this enabling. Not loving.
There is still a consequence. It's partially transferred to someone else, and in a way, it changes the person who was relieved of it. Instead of them learning and being strengthened through adversity, they learn they can simply not be held responsible. Any growth they would have had, is stolen, and their behavior is unlikely to change.
Some call this enabling. Not loving.