I think your problem is your position control linkage adjustment. If you look at the picture below, you'll see the area of the adjustment rod. From your description, you need to adjust the control linkage so it is longer than it currently is. That way, your HPL will null out the upward movement before it reaches the physical limit and opens the system relief valve. The whining sound you are hearing is the relief valve lifting.
So disconnect the rod with the tractor off. Start the tractor and raise the 3PH just until the relief valve opens and then drop the lever until the relief valve stops whining. Adjust the rod and clevis until it aligns at this position and one additional turn to make it slightly longer. Reattach everything and check operation. Perform readjustments until the 3PH stops and does not cause the system relief valve to open when the lever is all the way up. You now have the position control lift maximum height adjusted properly.