WV_Budman,
Welcome to TBN!
What backhoe do you have? Is it the Kubota hoe or something else?
Anyway, 3PH backhoes can be a concern. If they are mounted properly maybe not much of a concern. But determining whether your backhoe is mounted according to specs should be a concern until you know for sure.
In some cases a 3PH backhoe requires some additional brackets to be installed for strength. I don't know about your tractor. I know mine does.
You might try to find out what is required by Kubota for that particular model. Tractor breakage is not that common with 3PH backhoes, but it has happened and has been reported here a time or two.
Again, chances are you will be OK and don't have to worry about anything. But it never hurts to ask.
Post some more details about the backhoe type and you may get some better, specific feedback.
Enjoy your first tractor. It will do a lot of hard work for you... /forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif