Lee,
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First, make sure it's not something simple like a safety cutout switch. If it's hydrostatic, you may need to have the brake on, someone on the seat, and the PTO off. For a gear-shift machine, the shifter should be in neutral. Having accidentally left the PTO on is high on the list of possibilities.
To check the starter solenoid relay:
If your starter motor has one heavy gauge wire going to it, trace it backward to find the starter solenoid. It should have that wire attached to one lug, as well as another heavy gauge wire coming from the battery. There will also be a lighter gauge wire attached, coming from the ignition switch. With the key in the "start/crank" position, you should see 12V on that light gauge wire. If not, you have a bad connection in the wire, or possibly a bad ignition switch.
But if you do have 12V on that light wire, and 12V on the wire from the battery, but no voltage on the wire to the starter, then the solenoid is bad.
There is a very slim chance that the starter solenoid on your machine is built into the starter itself. In that case, both the light guage wire and the heavy gauge wires would be attached to lugs on the starter.