this will be my solution but I'd still like to know why they're bending. I looked into the suggestion that the chains belong inside the arms or ahead of the lift arms that neither fit that way and it's contrary to how the manual shows everything installed. I know I overloaded the arms the first time they bent but subsequent bending has me baffled.
To me most likely the subsequent bending was just from under sized 1/2 inch cheap TS chinese junk lift arms being used...