open center valves pass hyds straight thru to sump ( or some other valve down stream in the case of Power beyond valves ), any time a function on the valve is not being used.
for a setup that uses a 3pt hitch pump that makes it divert pressure to an external port to then be used with a valve and external cyl, then that valve must be open center style and dump back to the sump.. otherwise if it is a closed center valve it will make the system 'run in relief', and the only time it won't be in relief, when the 3pt is diverting, is when the aux valve is sending oil to say.. another cyl.. etc.
the 3pt diverting oil out to an open center valve which then sends it to sump should NOT load the engine.. in fact.. it should not be noticed at all.. the fact that it is being noticed means there is a restriction on that diverted oil that the engine is seeing.. thus my idea of you perhaps having a closed center valve...
soundguy