I would bet money that you have a bad connection. Probably the negative battery cable to the frame. Just because it is tight don't assume it is good. Your symptom of everything going dead is a classic example of a bad connection. You should take off the negative cable and clean both the cable lug and the frame until they are bright. You should also make sure the negative battery connection is good. This means cleaning the battery post and the inside of the clamp on the end of the negative cable until the metal is bright. While you're at it do the same to the positive cable. Also feel the battery cables near the battery. If the cables feel soft near the battery but hard away from the battery then the cable is probably corroded inside. Finally, after the next failed starting attempt feel the battery cables. If one is hot, especially near the battery, this indicates a high resistance situation, most likely from internal corrosion. Check the positive first.
Eric