I had to plead with my wife to get on the tractor and drive it. I wanted her to know how to start it, stop it, and at least know how to operate the FEL controls. I think in 3 years she has driven the tractor twice only because of my insistance.
However, my boss at work is a woman whose husband has a Kubota tractor with FEL and BH. She is not the least bit afraid to jump on the tractor and use it, somewhat to her husbands dismay at times.
I think is is a good thing for wives to know how to operate the family tractor and it's various devices as long as they feel comfortable with it, safety is the key element. However, if their seat time means you're doing the dishes, laundry, or having to vacuum the house maybe something is wrong with that picture. : /forums/images/graemlins/laugh.gif
Randy