Not an electrician but. . .
Had the exact situation myself. Pole is on South side of house, about 30 feet from south-facing wall. Cable enters house underground into crawlspace and up to load center which is fairly centrally located in the house. The pole has a 200 amp main breaker on the meter panel. House has 200 amp breaker on the load center. Wire from pole to load center, as I recall is 1/0 aluminum.
I spliced at the connection in my house panel using grundy clamps and connecting just below the set screws for the load center bus bars. I ran the wire back down from the panel, through the crawlspace to the North side of the house toward my workshop. I used 2/2/4 aluminum wire which is rated for outdoor use, but in my case, I trenched to 18" and ran the wire in 1" PVC conduit.
In the workshop, I used a 100 amp load center, obviously with a 100 amp main breaker. I never did check the ampacity tables on the 2/2/4 aluminum to see if it had a 100 amp rating, but rather took the building supply vendor's word for it. I run a rather large single phase 220v welder (rated at up to 72 amps input current at rated max power). I'll never use that much current, but my outfit is wired safely and functionally. We don't have code in this county, so safe and functional works for me. Some places have strange requirements on ground wires, sub panels, and such when feeding detached buildings.
If code is an issue with you OR if you don't fully understand what you're doing, make sure you get help from a qualified electrician. It'd be a bummer if you burnt the place down.
Good Luck!