IMO, I would use stacked valves, the kind that bolt together, most likely one can stack three of them together for the front end loader part, and depending on the back hoe, one can stack up to 6 of them, on my loader I chose the joy stick addition on the loader two main valves, and two of them on the back hoe with the center two for the out riggers,
the type I used is sold by
surplus center,
I would most likely use a power beyond option on the loader valve to feed the back hoe, as the loader will most like get used more than the back hoe, if one does not want to go that route, one could put a quick connect on the valves and just change the hose, but I do not think you would care for that,
with out looking at the circuit I do not know if you would need a relief on both valves or only one (I do not remember how the power beyond flows),
https://www.surpluscenter.com/item.asp?item=9SV-4-Y&catname=hydraulic
https://www.surpluscenter.com/item.asp?item=9SV-3-Z&catname=hydraulic
the sv are good for up to 12 gallons, and the the 20 series are good for 20 gallons,
http://www.princehyd.com/Portals/0/products/valves/SVInstS.pdf
http://www.princehyd.com/Portals/0/products/valves/SVManual.pdf
http://www.princehyd.com/Portals/0/products/valves/catalog/ValvesSV.pdf
Hydraulic Directional Stack Valves
the neat thing about stacked valves is if you have a special need, say you want to run a hydraulic motor one of the valves can be a motor valve, and if you want a detentes on or a float setting you can put that valve in the stack,
first I am not saying the prince brand is the one to go with I have had good luck with them in the past, but there are other manufactures out there, one may want to consider, I bought prince because of the availability to me,