<font color=blue>"Always wanted to shorten the driver's shaft cause I felt that I was going to fall over backwards when trying to swing the club with any force."</font color=blue>
Dave,
Sounds to me like you were standing too close to the ball.
You mention that you thought that golf was supposed to be a fun, relaxing sport, not the stressful exercise it was turning into. Well, you learned the one lesson that many players never learn. It is a game that is supposed to be fun. I can tell you, it took my being away from the game for about 15 years for me to understand that when I finally got back to it. And since I've got my head screwed on staright, I've had more fun, and my game has improved. Basically because I'm more relaxed and I don't let the bad shots get to me.
Back in '94, my son was a freshman in high school. He'd started playing golf when he was 11, and he seemed to be a natural. Well, he went out for the H.S. golf team, and carded the lowest round for a freshman in the qualifiers in school history. He was on varsity from that point on. At spring break, I decided to see if a little professional instruction would help any, so we enrolled at the <A target="_blank" HREF=http://www.slresort.com/noframes/academy.html>U.S. Golf Academy</A>. It's a 4 day program that is tailored to the golfers skill level. In fact, it's located in Plymouth, Indiana. That shouldn't be too far from where you are.
Anyway, it was a fun experience for both of us. I learned some things that really helped improve my game, and the pro that we were assigned to made some good adjustments in my son's swing. He did caution us, however, that it takes a little practice to get better with the new adjustments. He told us that we would get worse before we got better.
Well, he was right. We got back from the trip, and two days later my son had a conference meet where he shot a 101 /w3tcompact/icons/shocked.gif. He'd been shooting in the upper 70's! His coach came up to me and asked me what the he_ _ had happened to his game. I explained where we had gone during spring break, and the coach went ballistic! /w3tcompact/icons/mad.gif And I must say, rightfully so. It took about two weeks for my son's game to come around, and then he started shooting better scores than before we went to the Academy. Ultimately, even the coach said that it was worth it, but he did make me promise to never give my son lessons during golf season again!
My point is, Dave. If you really want to get better, take some lessons from a qualified teaching pro. Or maybe sign up for one of these 3 or 4 day schools. They're a lot of fun, and you really learn a lot. Trust me, you don't know what humility is until you've seen your own golf swing on video tape! /w3tcompact/icons/crazy.gif Some of my golfing buddies and I are planning on all going down sometime together as a kind of golf get away!
The main point is, just have fun. Do what feels right for you, don't let it get to you, and keep it down the middle! /w3tcompact/icons/wink.gif/w3tcompact/icons/grin.gif