Size does not necessarily indicate bend-ability. You could have a 3/8 in hose that is very stiff, and a 1/2 hose that is very flexible, based on numbers of wire braid, hose material, etc. When you purchase a hose, you need to specify what you want. Most any fitting will reduce the flow rate somewhat. It could even increase the velocity, if the pump can maintain the flow in GPM's. Hoses are also selected by the heat range. If you use the wrong hose, the life if the hose will diminish. If you tell the hose guy the pressure and flow rate, he will sell or build you a hose assembly, hopefully. If you say I want a 1/2 hose this long with JIC-F 1/2 with 3/8 JIC-M fittings, he will make you a hose. However you might get a sticker shock if he makes up a hose with the best hose/fittings he has.
Anyway, you all know you can use just about any hose as long as it will fit, however you limit yourself on sound knowledge or just ignore good old common sense about somethings. Sometimes you just get lucky.
Rules are rules, but sometimes there is a better way to do things.