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77transam

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(This was a comment I posted on the previous thread and I figured I'd start a new one with it. I'd love to hear about others childhood memories and recollections of a simpler time and life.):D

You know it's pretty amazing to look back in time and see the huge differences in society and Americana in general. Seems like alot of people from my generation(I'm 42) have pretty much forgotten just how much has changed in the past 40 years, much less 70...Heck I can remember 3 channels on the TV, rotary dial phones and being able to identify the major components of my buddy's cars when they popped the hood to show off some new parts! (Yep, that's the carb,alternator,coil,power steering,brake booster,distributer,etc.)

Computers were something you read about in the library when doing research for a school paper on NASA...

If I wanted to talk to/play with my friends, we made plans at school then we'd ride our bikes 2 to 10 miles to each others houses. We would camp out and play army in the woods and shoot our 22's and daisy BB guns at tin cans(And never at each other 'cause our daddy's would tan our hides!) If we killed something,(say a squirrel or rabbit) we would take it to Grandma's house and she would skin and fry it and we'd eat like kings!

Our parent's taught us to RESPECT our elders and how to shoot and clean our guns.
I learned the importance of saying yes sir/ma'am and thank you almost at birth.
I chopped and carried the wood to fuel the woodstove my Grandma used to make homemade biscuits and cobblers, and was happy to do it! (Lord, I miss her cooking...)
If I misbehaved at any of my relative's houses, A switch was used to quickly instruct me in the error of my ways, and it was done with patient temperment, not anger...(If you look at your child wrong now, the Gov.will throw you in jail)

When I was 6 yrs. old I would walk behind my father and pick up the stray tobacco leaves he would occasionally drop when he was helping my Uncle and Grandpa harvest the crops...My reward? An ice-cold pepsi and a slice of watermelon waiting at the barn...
(If I ask my 14 yr. old nephew to help me carry in a coffee table I've fixed for his mom, he looks at me like I'm crazy and expects a $20.00 bill when we're done!)

I miss manners.
I miss family bonds and love.
I miss neighbors working together to bring communities together and protect and watch out for each other's children.
I miss being able to raise a family without having the Gov. tell me what I can and can't teach them and how I'm supposed to discipline them.
I miss Saturday mornings riding in the back of Daddy's old Dodge truck to the General store and getting a $.10 ice cream and a $.20 Pepsi while the local farmers talked shop on the covered porch.
I miss sittin' on the tailgate of that same truck and watching Old Yellow at the local drive-in while (willingly) sharing a box of popcorn and a coke w/my sister...

Yes, there were some hard/sad times and it wasn't always a rose garden, but it was a simple,safe and pure life that most people of this day and age will never know... Cherish the memories, cherish the memories.
 
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Great post.

But you are a young whippersnapper.:) I"m 63 and I think I remember a Pepsi being 5 or 6 cents, and it was a special treat.

Are you a member of an electric coop? If so, you should consider sending it in for publication in the coop's magazine. I have seen similar pieces in NC coops' "Carolina Country."

Steve
 
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still living my child hood memories.:D but i do respect my parents and elders. :thumbsup: i dont expect a $20 bill for doing little as moving a coffee table. I just cut, hauled, and stacked several cord of wood today for my grandpa. My reward, a job well done and less work for my grandpa. :thumbsup: still got several more cords to move and stack but i got half of it done today. :D:thumbsup:
 
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still living my child hood memories.:D but i do respect my parents and elders. :thumbsup: i dont expect a $20 bill for doing little as moving a coffee table. I just cut, hauled, and stacked several cord of wood today for my grandpa. My reward, a job well done and less work for my grandpa. :thumbsup: still got several more cords to move and stack but i got half of it done today. :D:thumbsup:

I bet your grandpa appreciated your help today. The seeds you sow decide the crop you reap, you will enjoy the harvest. Keep up the good work.
 
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77,

You summed it up. I am trying to instil this in my kids - respect and being helpful.

I remember the party phone line at my grandparent's house and the leather razor strap that was used for sharpening a razor and tanning your hide if you were bad. We always addressed elders as Mr and Mrs. We hayed, stacked wood and cleaned the barn and didn't receive a 'reward'. It was expected. I remember fish and chips served in cones/dishes made from forming a newspaper - definitely could not get away with that to day! Ice cream after church before the 1.5 hour drive to our grandparents farm on Sundays.

Connecting a hockey card to your front forks of your bicycle to get that motor sound - the spokes made it click as the wheel turned. Playing after school - not watching tv or playing with a ds. Tv was limited to Saturday mornings and Sunday nights - especially the Disney show! Coming in out of the snow to get a change of clothes before going out again to build forts all day long. Remember the wool pants?

Spring was celebrated in March with kite flying - sometimes bought, sometimes home made. We always made a small rink in the back yard and played hockey for hours and never took out a window with a puck! Playing in the frog ponds and always getting muddy, cold and wet - never complained.

We always had a station wagon - we loaded in and no seat belts were used. My father, in over 50 years of driving, never had an accident or speeding ticket! We camped as a family in old army tents and were told 'don't touch the canvas if it's raining!'

ah - fun times....
 
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Good post and a lot of truths here. I'm not nostalgic about hitting kids for punishment, though.
 
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I remember sleeping with the windows open and the doors unlocked. 1 policeman in our town of 2500 and he went off duty around nightfall. The frosty root beer from the A & W. Me and my cousins seining farm ponds with 100 ft seines. Strip(white) bass fishing at night on Dale Hollow and Cumberland Lake. Drive 100 miles to surprise family newlyweds on the first night of their honeymoon with rocks on the roof, banging on buckets, blowing whistles, dragging the young man out and dunking him in the spring or creek. Ken Sweet
 
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Drive 100 miles to surprise family newlyweds on the first night of their honeymoon with rocks on the roof, banging on buckets, blowing whistles, dragging the young man out and dunking him in the spring or creek. Ken Sweet

They called that a shivaree where I grew up. Sadly, that tradition had passed in my area by the time I was old enough to participate as a prankster.

Steve
 
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They called that a shivaree where I grew up. Sadly, that tradition had passed in my area by the time I was old enough to participate as a prankster.

Steve

Steve, We called it the same thing here, I just didn't know how to spell shivaree :D Ken Sweet
 
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Steve, We called it the same thing here, I just didn't know how to spell shivaree :D Ken Sweet

Neither did I.:) I made a guess and came up with this when I Googled.

"A shivaree, or charivari, or chivaree is a North American term for a clamorous salutation made to a newlywed couple by an assembled crowd of neighbours and friends."

Steve
 

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