The good thing is those hoses are routed and bundled (well, at least mine were) so they pretty much fall into place. Also, they do not cross over one another...pretty much a straight shot.
So, plug them in as they fall into place, start your tractor and, at a low idle, operate your loader control stick. Forward is lowering the loader, back is raising the loader, to the left is curl and to the right is dump.
If that's how it moves, all is good and you're done.
If the loader/bucket doesn't move correctly, pick ONE (mark this with a wiretie) hose and swap with another, then see how the loader operates. Still not working right, move the ONE (wiretied) hose again and see what happens. Once a movement matches the stick function (add a second wiretie so you don't move it again!), pick a second hose (again, wiretie it)...you'll have two possibilites (do not move the first wiretied hose!!) and continue the process. It might take a half hour or so, but be focused and consistent (never move a hose when you have a correct function!) and you'll be OK.
I used four different color wireties to label my hoses when the color coded caps wore out. Use a same color wiretie on the corresponding male and female hoses.