Sounds to me like you still don't have your loader valve installed correctly - if your 3PH is strong but your loader won't lift its own weight, then
whatever fluid MIGHT be in that part of the system, is NOT being "contained" enough to do any serious WORK.
Here's the manual for your Gresen valve
https://www.parker.com/parkerimages...rvice Literature/Bul HY14-2702-M1 V11 DCV.pdf
Pay particular attention to some of the options,
specifically a PB (Power Beyond) plug that's optional - if yours doesn't have it the loader valve may be just redirecting your flow back to tank WITHOUT developing any more pressure than it takes to move the fluid thru un-restricted piping.
I am TOTALLY unfamiliar with MF tractors, but Tractordata.com says it's an open center system - I'm pretty sure that, if I were adding a loader to that tractor, I would try to insert the loader valve BEFORE the 3PH using the loader valve's PB port, and finding a way for the "out" port on the loader valve to get back to Tank.
Timing - typically, if everything is hooked up right on a tractor that size then stroking all the cylinders back and forth maybe 5-6 times should purge any air -
if you've done that much and STILL no real POWER, then your plumbing is wrong or the loader valve is toast
Also, if your loader valve IS "inserted" prior to the 3PH and you do NOT have the PB plug in the loader valve (IOW, if your "Tank" port is plumbed directly to the 3PH input) then there's a VERY good chance the seals in the loader valve's "OUT" section are blown - very few of that type valve are designed for full hydraulic pressure in the "Tank" gallery of the valve; that's one of the MAIN purposes of a PB "sleeve" - when it's installed, it SEALS OFF the "Tank" gallery from the high pressure, but still gives you "Power Beyond" the valve for another valve ... Steve