The fan could be tuned down somewhat. As far as the operation goes, with a modern 14 SEER HP it is not surprising that you are not seeing much aux heat. Depends of course on the sizing vs. heat loss. The air feels cool since the air temp at the register may only be 80 or 85 degrees, which "feels" cool. The 2 speed fan will kick into high gear before any aux heat comes on. Usually there is a speed adjust, with a jumper or DIP switch, to set the fan for each range. A higher air flow is usually used with heat pumps to better distribute the not so warm air. Try lowering it a step and see if the house is as comfortable. You should not lose efficiency, but may end up with some cool spots in a room.
As for the geo system, I finished my installation in early November. I put a lot of time into it, and as usual things did not go as planned. I did the ground work in mid September, planning for it to be cooler out, but we had a hot stretch in the 90's That was a challange. Then I did my swap out of my seconf floor unit in November, so it would not be hot when I was in the attic. Sure enough another hot spell in the mid 80's The attic easily reached the high 90's as I worked on my hands and knees. Again I suffered. My new air handler for the attic was the same model as the original, but 19 years newer. Sure enough all the dimensions had changed, so a lot of duct adapters had to be fabbed.
In the end the system is running very well. Register temps are around 95 degrees, so if feels a lot better. Also on the 15 degree nights, instead of the all night non-stop runs of the old air heat pumps, I now get 20 minute runs.
Best of all is the fact that the performance stays up there even when it is 10 degrees out. My amprobe reads about 7 amps per unit, or about 1700 watts. About the same as a window A/C unit.
It was somewhat costly and a lot of time and effort, but well worth it.
paul