Your valve may have 7 ports but how many hoses are connected to it? Sounds like 6 to me, thus your valve does not have power beyond but may in fact have the capabilities to have power beyond if the right parts are added.
Is the bucket curling or the loader arms raising? Probably the latter.
Depending on the design of your 3pt position control valve, you are probably getting some feedback back into the loader valve. Since there is no direct return to tank port, the loader work ports exhaust right into the return port which dumps directly into the main flow.
As I have said many times in the past, when there are more than one valve in the system, all valves except for the last must have power beyond so that the valves will work correctly. Your problem is just one of many things that can happen when power beyond is not present on up-stream valves.