Pulling what's left of my hair out of my head

   / Pulling what's left of my hair out of my head #1  

Sigarms

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2nd time mowing. Have him practicing in the back field for a straight line:laughing:

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My wife is so right. My father and I are two peas in a pod. I have no paitence like him.

Had to scold his brother for using the other mower too fast on a gentle slope and missing too many spots to boot.
 
   / Pulling what's left of my hair out of my head #2  
Don't be too rough on them. One day (quickly) they will be grown and leave. You and your wife will be all alone.
I sure miss my kids being young and still around. I would trade with you in a heart beat !
 
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LMAO!!! That's just funny right there, one of those moments that you just shake your head and laugh.

I don't have kids but I find myself getting really agitated training new people at work but I have to remind myself that I myself didn't start out perfecting certain tasks or doing them with speed and efficiency.

That takes time and lots of practice, some people get it quickly, some never do.

Would I get mad at a beginner operator of a lawn mower because he/ she didn't cut straight lines? No because operating dad's mower is stressful enough.

Would I get mad at a new operator if I saw them operating the equipment in a unsafe manor or potentially harmful to the equipment? Heck yes but I would show them the potential outcome of there actions and not just scream and shout.

Unless they have spent hours wrenching on the equipment, maintenance means nothing to them and they won't operate with the mindset of trying to avoid future maintenance like most of us will.

A stressed out kid will be so focused on messing up that he will most likely make more mistakes.

My dad was very particular to how his equipment was operated, and anything I broke while operating his equipment, I had to order, buy and install, he would only pay half the part cost so I learned real quick to keep potential maintenance in mind.

In reality my dad was just being a cheap *** lmao but it was effective.

I still remember to this day splitting a $140 front tire with him because it picked up a piece of wire in the sidewall while I cut the grass, I didn't argue about it, I just told him and he said go order a new tire lol. I went to the dealer, ordered the same tire as what's on the mower, took the old wheel off, had the tires swapped, installed the wheel on the mower and my dad gave me $75 to cover half the tire. I was in HS working 30-40 hours a week @ $8.25 per hour plus school, that was a lot of money at the time for me.

I learned more by fixing my own mistakes than I did getting yelled at.
 
   / Pulling what's left of my hair out of my head #4  
Be happy they are at least trying to help. I see so many kids these days that are totally worthless and unwilling to even try and help.

Raised two boys and understand wanting things done your way and now watching them raise their kids can laugh and sympathize with them.

good luck and keep em safe.
 
   / Pulling what's left of my hair out of my head #5  
Don't be a old CURMUDGEON.lol
 
   / Pulling what's left of my hair out of my head #6  
Both my girls (14 and 11) had their growing pains on the lawn mower. The oldest used to always spray the side of my car with grass. One time she drove the zero turn into the weeds and some briars. She texted me to come get her so she didn't have to walk through the briars. I have a real funny pic of that somewhere.
The youngest started mowing last year and misses a lot of spots but that's how you learn. Be patient, in a few more years they will be really helpful for bigger projects. Everyone has to learn somehow.
 
   / Pulling what's left of my hair out of my head #7  
years of figuring out how to get it done and over with just not there yet!
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i will mess up on purpose so i do not have to mow again, LOL. *ughs*

i mess up more than i care to admit...when learning.
 
   / Pulling what's left of my hair out of my head #8  
I think you should feel lucky that you have somebody that will listen to what you say, be a willing helper and not want to be paid for every little thing they do. So the line is not straight - who cares - dead on straight or with a few bends & twists - the grass still gets mowed. And if you're upset because the lines aren't straight - man, your not out in the country.
 
   / Pulling what's left of my hair out of my head #9  
Another thought, fence it in and get a few cattle , or have someone bale it, you may be wasting good forage.
 
   / Pulling what's left of my hair out of my head #10  
About 15 years ago my daughter got mowing instructions. Just like the OP picture I watched her from behind....drive square straight into the house...dead on...in disbelief I calmy got her off and told her mowing isn't for her and she went in the house to never mow again...years later I realized how brilliant she was.
 

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