Where exactly is this double acting valve fitted on your tractor? Do you have a picture of that?
The first drawing you show looks like the standard 3PH control valve, and the second is a picture of it

To run a single acting dump trailer cylinder off the stock system, you need an additional pipe added. In the first diagram you posted, that pipe with a quick coupling fitting is plummed into the system where the "X" is shown on that diagram. The cylinder above the X is the 3PH cylinder, and the 2 valve diagrams to the right of the cylinder represent the speed regulating valve which controls the lowering speed of the 3PH to keep you from dropping a heavy 3PH impliment too quickly. That valve is located on the front of the hydraulic reservoir right down in front of the seat and has a round knob like a water faucet on the top. Can you take a pic like the second one of the valve, but zoomed out a little and panned to the right to show the area in front of the reservoir?
My 284 has that added pipe to feed a dump trailer, and it is connected to the right side of that speed regulating valve block down in front of the seat. You can see it in this picture, it comes from a banjo fitting, runs straight up and then bends to the left in the picture which is toward the rear of the tractor.
That pipe runs back and ends at a QC fitting as seen in the next pic(sorry bout the sawdust, been running the
chipper
). You connect the trailer cylinder to that QC. To dump the trailer you screw that speed regulating valve in front of the seat, all the way in/closed. This prevents fluid from flowing to the 3PH like it normally would when you use the 3PH control lever. With the speed reg valve closed, and with the trailer connected, up on the 3PH control dumps the trailer and down on the 3PH control allows fluid to flow back into the reservoir, allowing the trailer to lower by gravity.
