He means if you cycle the glow plugs just before or after spraying ether, you could cause and explosion! If the ether touches those hot glow plugs, it will blow up in the intake manifold, which is not in a controlled enviroment like it is in your cylinders.
My old Kubota will not start without glow plugs even after only being shut down for a few minutes. But she has a slight grey wisp smoke when running, indicating to me she might have some poor compression. It's possible you have the same thing. Either valves not adjusted right, stuck rings, or worn rings/cylinders.
Light grey smoke/hard starting (especially after sitting overnight) can be air in fuel also as also noted. It indicates a cold combustion chamber, poor compression, or air in fuel.