i know it wasn't a family member, nor was it a great friend, but i feel for u and your state, a lost treasure for sure! hate to see old things go ! i have a dumb tree that has to come down, it is a pain in the ****, dirty tree, cause lots of work, but it must come down, yet i try to put if off> took so long for it to grow, and i have looked at it for so long, not sure how i can deal without it. sounds stupid don't it?