The three post relay you show is for later, electronic ignition systems and/or a diesel engine. The small post should be connected to your start switch - keyswitch or button switch, and 1 large post goes to your battery and the other large post to the starter. The relays with the extra "ign" terminal are for older, point- type ignition systems. A point system ignition coil does not operate at battery voltage normally, they have a ballast resistor(internal or external) to drop voltage normally to about 9 - 10 volts (12 volt systems). For starting only, there is usually a wire from the "ign" terminal on the relay to the positive coil terminal - when the relay is in the energized, start mode only, it delivers full battery voltage to the coil for better spark for starting. When you release your starter switch, this "ign" terminal is off and the coil is operating on resisted voltage again thru the ballast resistor. I guess in rare applications, this terminal could be used to supply battery voltage to something else, but it will only be live while in the start mode. The case on the relay is the ground for the solenoid inside - make sure it has good, clean contact with grounded metal.