I have a trailer that I just bought and while pulling it with some mulch loaded over the axles and to the rear (which made the tongue light ) the trailer unhooked from the ball hitch.The tongue coupling is an Atwood which takes a 2 in ball.My question is what should I be looking for I have seen the couplers that have a nut on the bottom to adjust the fit of the ball ,but this coupler does not have that.any suggestions? ty Darrin