sixdogs
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To the OP--keep following your instincts--I believe you are on the right path. Do not take the bait to escalate unless you are certain of the response (read the book) of the neighbor. My guess is he's just an "assassain" personality that will strike in the dark but run from your shadow. He is just seeing how much mischief he can create to determine how far he can push. He could one day become a half-nice or at least passive neighbor once his behavior boundaries are established for him. This needs to de-escalate rather than escalate or even stay constant.
I would not do it but you could likely "win" the post removal thing as well as blowing stuff on your side by merely calling the cops. Even if they do nothing--at the moment--they will give the guy a warning that is something to the effect of "if the pin moves again, even if the wind does it, you're getting arrested". I am familiar with these things and this is definately plan D but it is a wake-up call. Read the book. Even the cops coming out to look the situation over without confronting the neighbor can have a sobering effect on behavior. But again, the above paragraph is for illustrative purposes and I do not imply to someone that has not read the entire thread that this is a suggestion or course of action. It's just beer talk.
As well, I believe the leaf blower thing is a way to allow him to save face with family members who are watching him lose in a dispute he likely boasted he was certain he would win. All those people he told could park or drive there--and now can't-- will now have a negative image of him that he is likely trying to correct by his actions. It's a Tarzan yell, of sorts, over his domain.
Keep putting one foot in front of the other and your moderate personality will likely assure a happy ending. In the discussion, what used to be really never was and is wasted breath. Get the trees fully on your side and 2 1/2' to 3' for a northern white cedar in CT is SOP. Trimming actually helps cedars.
It's not possible at the moment but a good heart-to-heart talk with a neighbor can solve many situations like this. Months ago this might have fixed things.
Get your survey info recorded and get a new legal description to incorporate in your deed and abstract if the wording is different from what you already have. My guess is it's the same and the survey recording will take care of things. Ask the surveyor how to fix the problem and go the way she points. You already know this stuff so keep on keepin' on and report back when you get around to it. We're rootin' for you.
I would not do it but you could likely "win" the post removal thing as well as blowing stuff on your side by merely calling the cops. Even if they do nothing--at the moment--they will give the guy a warning that is something to the effect of "if the pin moves again, even if the wind does it, you're getting arrested". I am familiar with these things and this is definately plan D but it is a wake-up call. Read the book. Even the cops coming out to look the situation over without confronting the neighbor can have a sobering effect on behavior. But again, the above paragraph is for illustrative purposes and I do not imply to someone that has not read the entire thread that this is a suggestion or course of action. It's just beer talk.
As well, I believe the leaf blower thing is a way to allow him to save face with family members who are watching him lose in a dispute he likely boasted he was certain he would win. All those people he told could park or drive there--and now can't-- will now have a negative image of him that he is likely trying to correct by his actions. It's a Tarzan yell, of sorts, over his domain.
Keep putting one foot in front of the other and your moderate personality will likely assure a happy ending. In the discussion, what used to be really never was and is wasted breath. Get the trees fully on your side and 2 1/2' to 3' for a northern white cedar in CT is SOP. Trimming actually helps cedars.
It's not possible at the moment but a good heart-to-heart talk with a neighbor can solve many situations like this. Months ago this might have fixed things.
Get your survey info recorded and get a new legal description to incorporate in your deed and abstract if the wording is different from what you already have. My guess is it's the same and the survey recording will take care of things. Ask the surveyor how to fix the problem and go the way she points. You already know this stuff so keep on keepin' on and report back when you get around to it. We're rootin' for you.