Ok, I've read every page you sent me. It is helping me to clear up some questions. What book are those out of. I should probably invest in it. My manual has almost none of what you sent me and its called a shop manual.
Your sure are nice to send me all of that stuff and help me to get through this.
Since I don't have any visible high pressure leaks when I engage the pto, yet I know I am getting oil flow through that little connector I had pictured, What does that leave besides severely worn clutch plates, a stripped out splines (seems unlikely) or as you suggested, a roller pin (bearing?) put in backwards? I'm trying to prepare myself for all likely outcomes so I have the parts on hand. Also, remember that when I engage my rear remote it do get a low growl since it isn't hooked to anything.