My thoughts on the earlier statement about people in the South not taking a liking to outsiders from NY (or anywhere else for that matter) is simple. People in whatever area you look at, don't like it when people from another region move in and start trying to change things to the way it was back in "whatever area they came from". It isn't just people moving to the south, as I hear the same thing about people from Ca moving into neighboring states. The biggest thing is, if you don't like the way things are done in whatever region you move into, then move back to where you were, don't expect the people in the new region to accept you if you try to force the ways of the region you moved out of, on them. If you want the ways of your old region, then stay there! That will make everybody happy! If you want to move to a new region, then please consider the way things are done in that region, and if you don't like it, then keep you mouth shut, and adapt or move.
I am not trying to start trouble, not at all, I just get to see this all the time, and wish the people starting the problems would move.
David from jax
The road we live on is named after my neighbor.
Yes, we're Yankees, but in the first 6 months living at our place, we invited ALL of our neighbors over for dinner. It was mentioned to us from our neighbors that the previous owner (who was "local" and moved back to his dads farm behind the one back field) had NEVER invited them over to our house EVER in over 10 years he lived there (he had the house built).
My neighbor (southern born and bred) bushogs my field and he uses the hay for his daughter. He'll stop over on his ATV and say hi, and my boys know him.
People can be buttholes from every part of the country. If you treat people the way you expect to be treated, and be friendly on top of it, generally no problems less the buttholes.
My in laws who moved down to NC from Vermont this year have their neighbors (all southern born and bred) bringing vegetables over to them. Low and behold, my in laws found out that the previous owners had NEVER invited their neighbors over AT ALL. Heck, my FIL has his one neighbor wanted to reload his Webly (sp?) revolver for him lol
I also had some neighbor put a tree stand on my property without asking. Have no clue as to who did it even asking my neighbors. That tree stand has been in shed for the last 3 years. As I explained to my son, you want to do something on someone elses property, you ask first. Funny enough, no one has ever told me they're missing a tree stand.
Doesn't matter where your from, just be nice. Perhaps I'm lucky, I don't have any buttholes living around us LOL
I figure in another 10 years, I won't be a yankee at all
North Carolina is the longest I've ever lived anywhere since I've been born, and I actually beginning to consider myself a North Carolinian (still root for my Big 10 alma mater though, still can't get into State or the tar heels LMAO).