Well couldn't resist tossing in my .02 cents ...
By most any standard of product quality and customer service, you've had a bad deal as you describe things. As others have noted, once this gets resolved (and it will) I hope you enjoy your tractor and life as a tractor owner.
While it is true that this guy is a JD dealer, I think your issue -- legally speaking --is with the dealer, and not JD corporate. Corporate MAY want to get involved and try to enforce their will on the dealer to make this work out in a favorable way, but I think you are confined to trying to get cash consideration from the dealer who did the sloppy work. I think the best analogy is a car dealer. God knows I have had PLENTY of terrible deals with various dealers. But never once was I able to prevail upon Ford Motor Co to make me whole again.
The nice lady at JD corporate in all likelihood has never even seen the specific tractor you own, let alone ridden on one. She is a corporate answer-giver, and probably has little to no authority to issue check payments to disgruntled tractor buyers.
I think a great deal of these kinds of problems arise because people are totally inexperienced tractor buyers. In the past, almost every tractor was purchased by a farmer or a professional builder, landscaper, highway dept., etc. These people knew exactly what to expect, and also were able and usually willing to do the finish fittings themselves. No big deal.
Today’s compact tractor buyer is more often a yuppie type who is buying as much for emotional reasons as for the work loads he expects to use his equipment for. Things like "scratches on the hood" may be outrageous on a brand new pickup or SUV, but almost every tractor and implement has some issue of scratch, dent or rust. It just does.
I think all of the major compact tractor manufacturers have yet to realize, let alone understand and deal with all of these issues of type of buyer, uses and expectations.
TBN is a great place for all of the affected and interested parties to express themselves, learn and adjust to the realities of today’s compact tractor marketplace.
No doubt a rather considerable number of the existing dealers of all the manufacturers are back in the business and customer service models of the 50s and 60s. They need to do some serious surveying, education of the dealer network, and more extensive and improved educational materials for the first time buyer.
Having said all that, I think it is wrong and unfair to make judgments about John Deere tractors or JD corporate based upon this one instance. They have a superb, even fabulous history of quality and customer service. I am fairly certain in the end that reputation will prevail and your problems will be resolved favorably for you. Just sorry you had to go thru all this. Sure does make a sour taste in the mouth, I can understand.