Well, my latest update.... but it's GREAT news!!! The shop called me today at lunchtimeand said it was reay to go!! I said' "you're kidding me??" I asked how he got all the plugs out, and his response was; "very carefully"!! So, they got all the plugs out, apparently by soaking with penetrating fluid and working them back and forth carfully and giving the fluid time to soak in.
He had to use an easy out to get the one plug that was broken off out of the head. First he had to punch the porcelain (with the center electrode in it) on through into the chamber. He then used the easy out to get what was left of the plug out of the threads. I asked how the got the porcelain out? He used a long piece of steel rod with some rtv on the end, grabbed it up like glue. He ran a very small bore camera down into the chamber to make sure it was all clear inside.
When he put the new plugs in, he used anti-seize. Someone here said not to use it on aluminum heads but I can't see why it would possibly be a bad thing?? Can you please explain?? He also torqued the plugs to spec as well.
They had to replace two of the COP's, both ends I guess got damaged from being taken out so many times, plus some of them were 10 years old. I've replaced at least three myself that I can recall over the years that had started misfiring.
With parts, labor, and tax it came to right at $569. I'm happy. Got my truck back for a LOT LESS than a new motor (or having to pull the heads) and it runs great. That ford dealer can kiss it where the sun don't shine.

I'll never set foot in their door again, even if I have to drive to Detroit Michigan to get a $5 part.

Thanks for everyones comments though!!! This is THE BEST forum I've ever had the privilege to be a part of.
Old picture of it here, but it's sitting in the same place right now!