You tow 5000# behind a S70? Thats a lot of weight for a 4000# car.
Mine is a first generation S70 (basically the facelifted 850) which weighs 3200 pounds, and i've towed 6 silage bales with it, about 7000 pounds loaded. At that weight, wheelbase of my trailer, and height of center of gravity, its better to take the small roads and not exceed 60km/h because its clearly way beyond a point where i would let others drive.
The time i towed 5000 pounds was a long wheelbase 20ft tandem, which is more stable than my own 12ft tandem. We took a tractor home with the cruise control at 115 km/h, so it could run in 5th gear at the engines "sweet spot" , max torque at 2200rpm.
I'm thinking of installing HD rear springs of a V70 estate to increase the stability, to be able to tow bigger tractors every now and then, and to increase the hitch load from 75 to 150kg, when towing 5k lbs.
I suppose though, that a 5000# dual axle trailer behind an S70 wouldn't be too bad as long as it had decent brakes on both axles and the load was properly balanced.
With the tractor i stopped twice in the first 2 miles to roll the tractor back and forth to reach optimum weight distribution before i hit the highway. The trailer was a 3.5 ton (7700 pounds) with two 1800kg axles with surge brakes. When properly maintained (the brake bowdens need replacing at least every 5 years, or 2 in commercial use) the trailer will smoke its tires when you hit the brakes hard.
By law, in Europe everything has a brake force which equals 45 to 55% of the weight on the axle. at my former employer we allways liked to stay above 50% because bowdens start to brush off after a year or two and the friction in the cable reduces the brake force.