If it's doing goofy things for both then check to make sure the 3PH lever is not in the "UP" position going into relief not allowing return to move FEL cyls...
There is generally a moveable "stop" on the top of the lift lever shroud that people sometimes remove, (for no good reason). With that stop set above the top limit, the lift lever is able to overrun the top limit and has the lift circuit trying hard to overextend the lift cylinder.....
Try letting your 3PH control lever down just a tad, & see if that fixes it. Mine was doing almost the same thing, & it turned out the 3PH was "bottoming out" at the very top of its travel, dead-heading I think it's called, causing the hydro pump to bind up or go into its bypass valve .. I don't know all the terms, but that's the gist of it.
Thanks for all of the replies. I had the dealer look at it and they did not find any problems, but said it could be a problem with the 3PH control like several people suggested. They said the 3PH can be adjusted too high which can reduce pressure to the FEL. They made an adjustment so it will be harder to put the 3PH in this mode.
I have a 5' box blade attached which is lifted all of the way when using the FEL, I have not been lowering and lifting it back up. Do you think this still could be the source of the problem (only lifted once, and the problem happens hours later)?
Hopefully the problem does not return, I might be back with more questions if it does. Everyone has really been helpful, thanks again.