Troy,
You are in a real dilemma. Electric is way too expensive, natural gas is not available, propane has a lot of problems with dealers and cost and tanks and safety.
In my situation (5000 ft elevation in Nevada, I don't like propane and I won't pay for electric heat) I decided to go with thermal solar backed up with an oil fired boiler for my hydronic radiant system.
Also, remember that with a number of thermostats you can zone heat and leave large areas off if not being used, or turned way down. So your actual heated square footage is way less than the total of the house.
I plan to let the solar do all it can during the day and supplement it in the evenings or early mornings. I'm not building a large enough system to carry the entire load and will end up with, probably, 3 to 6 panels and 360 gallons of storage. Another benefit of the solar is that it will provide 100% of the water heating load for a large percentage of the year.
We will also be heating with a wood stove and have a lot of oak, desert peach and pinion available. The radiant will take the edge off the cold floor and the wood will provide the ambiance. The solar will run all day and store in the slab. The night will benefit from the 360 gallon solar storage and the early morning will get an oil blast.
If there is a power failure, the wood stove can carry the heating load. Our small diesel generator can operate the boiler, solar, a few lights and the fridge while being fueled from the storage tanks. We have 600 gallons of stored fuel oil so the heat and generator can run for months.
My biggest concern is the cost of fuel. I plan to buy it whenever there is a price dip. Also, we can haul what we need, so we're not dependent on a particular fuel supplier.
If nothing else, maybe you should consider solar to back up a simple electric system. This way you could get started and see how it goes. Also, you could get by with fewer BTUs, especially with zone heating, so consider the simple electric water heater as I mentioned in my earlier post. Tankless systems seem problematic to me with a lot of restriction and high cost.