Transmissions are an interesting point df.
As you may know, many (most) vehicles here are rated to tow more with an automatic, than a manual trani.
Don't get me wrong, I'm a BIG fan of manual transmissions.
While I haven't had the time/oppty to do a teardown comparison between two (M/A) transmission offerings for a given platform, my guess is that often the reason for the de-rating of the manual (tow #) is because most Canadians or Americans today have little or no ability to drive stick.
I feel that manual tranis give better feedback when towing heavy - BUT, that requires a skilled driver who is paying attention, and reacts and compensates appropriately.
In other words, the driver has to THINK more when using a manual trani, esp.when towing.
Sadly, I think the manufacturers are mostly right, the average Canadian or American driver would probably kill a clutch pretty quickly when towing.
In the showrooms here, the sell for towing is "buy the Automatic, you get a higher tow rating", but I suspect that is mostly a human factors issue, not so much a Mechanical Engineering based limitation.
Personally, I prefer a manual transmission. I've been surprised to find that many young people here (guys too), can not drive anything but an automatic. It is bad enough that Honda and Subaru, and a few other manufacturers that still make a point of offering stick tranis here have set up free (or nearly free) clinics in Toronto to encourage people to try manual transmissions in a safe, closed course setting.
Kudos to those manufacturers for making the effort, and toasting some clutches for a good cause (OK, potential future business for them, but still....).
Rgds, D.