I hear you, and I'm surprised every day with how people will spend weeks researching something like a camera or other toy, but won't spend an hour to learn basic investing.
because they think they can figure out the camera and will never figure out investing.
too baffling, too scary, too many crooks, too easy to "lose all your money", etc, etc.
I found this a lot with older women whose husbands had passed on, and now were totally dependent upon
their broker. And my job was to analyze their portfolio and determine if the broker really was doing his/her job.
Portfolio design has always interested me, how does one build a financial engine that will reliably over time get the job done
efficiently and quietly. I was being paid a fixed fee, for my time and advice, and had no desire to manage their investments.
So there was no wolf under my sheepskin... My biggest concern was equity/bond ratio, and while Morningstar Principia would provide
reams of interesting data, my job wasn't to beat up on the broker or find fault. Some of the portfolios I reviewed were really
excellent, but I must admit, I never found an investment portfolio self managed that didn't have some pretty strange stuff in it.
Most self managed portfolios I reviewed were too aggressive for the financial goals of the client. They hadn't dialed back their portfolios enough as they reached retirement age. I told client after client, get out of the passing lane, reduce your risk, and there are myriad ways of doing that.
I also had one young couple who were just buying CD's, and that was a rare thing. They had some real
budget issues and conceptual issues like feelings of entitlement after one has worked a hard day. Well, that's good, but that doesn't in itself
mean you can go spend three grand on that tv on the wall, and over two grand on that new fish tank. And whatever else you felt entitled to because you worked so hard. And he did work hard. I had to break it to some of these folks as gently as I could that they really needed to
change the rules they lived by. But the two younger families both had at least three kids each, and they were flat out broke at the end of the week. There was no money to invest, an investment plan was a joke, they were deep in credit card debt, and living on the financial edge. And were smart enough to ask for help. In one case, a person's church hired me to help the one young family, who was the church groundskeeper and they knew this young couple needed help. Not money, but training. I kind of wonder how they are doing now, years later. I hope better.