300UGUY
Super Member
There is a word in Japanese for working yourself to death. Kar
Whatever letter our current generation is, perhaps their biggest worry is carpal tunnel
and eye strain. Not back strain...
My great grandfather was a farmer in Eastern Europe. I think my grandfather wanted no part of that subsistence life, and
really believed what was written on the Statue of Liberty. So he came over in 1901, through Ellis Island, and
immediately went to work in a relative's butter and egg business in Newark, NJ.
And sent my Dad to Brown and Harvard Law School. Really an amazing accomplishment. And it took driving fifteen year old
Chevies to do it. Not a material family at all. My Dad's all time favorite thing was to come home, get in his blue jeans, light up a cigar, and
work in the garden. There is something in our family where we all want to get out hands in the dirt. Good genes I guess.
My mom died of cancer at 53 and my father of cancer at 65. Yes the cigars did him in. So in some ways they died before retirement. For seriously hard working folk, that
was pretty unfair. But unless one has a crystal ball, and not sure I want to know my last day on earth, we have to plan for the long, long term.
We are told to finance our retirements into our nineties.
Not sure I'm going to, plus I don't have kids, but we all watch our balances and at some point, naturally we ratchet back our normal expenses. Because medical expenses
take over.
Sounds kind of gloomy. Which is why I didn't wait any longer to get my new tractor. Every day is a great opportunity. Don't want to miss anything.
I retired as soon as I could. I've seen too many guys make grand plans - or no plans, and die young. I watched my best friend carefully plan on working to 65. At 62, he got cancer. Beat it. At 63, it came back, he was dead before he was 64. His widow now has a house too large, a pain she can never lose, and is alone in her last years. Btw, this guy never smoked, drank, was careful in what he ate, and exercised. I talk occasionally to some ex coworkers that are still working. They are struggling, work is harder than it used to be, and they seem miserable. Life is good for me, I bought my bota a couple years ago, you gotta do things, planning is overrated.