plowindeeper
Gold Member
Sounds like your friend was a problem.. So much so that the 'new man' felt the need to arm himself.
And he was right...
No he was not a problem he was upset. His wife left him after his second tour in Afghanistan with the Marines. He had post traumatic stress disorder. He let his emotions get in the way off common sense.
This is what a lot of people do when land disputes and other personal matters are involved. Talking about ( or doing it) wooping butt and shooting people will not fix anything. Most just talk anyway, if they were in the same situation it'd be different. I hope no one really wants to pull a gun and start shooting. Staying calm and being rational is the only way to fix a problem. By all means protect yourself if it cannot be avoided, but not putting yourself in the position to be provoked to get into it with them is easiest.
Me and one of my neighbors went all the way to court with our property line and we are still on speaking terms. We would have killed each other if I had not been able to defuse him (by not getting mad at him and talking sense to him). He always brought his four employees with him when he came and was usually half drunk and mad. I would not fall into his trap. I almost did several times though. I'd just offer him a beer and his attitude would change after a little bit of chatter. I had two out of four property owners one side disagreeing with me on our line. I had to force one part of the fence up, the other I took to court and won.
Don't let your emotions get in the way is the point I'm trying to make.
This was the best advice my lawyer gave me.