I'll tell you this. Whatever the impression you've got during your common training with Russian forces (with my whole respect to the NSA), for me they are simply the killers. It doesn't mean I hate Russian nation. No, I do not. I wish them all the best in the recovering of their society. But the institutions of Russia are working hard to educate their population in the spirit of chauvinism and expansionism. They falsify the history, they use Stalin's slavery period as a propaganda to show how strong their country could or should be.
Soviet troops vs unarmed Lithuanian civilians, Vilnius 1991. - YouTube
We were living in relatively peaceful period within 1992-2000 with Russia. We could forgive them for their past crimes and genocide strictly separating new Russia's behavior from SU. But from 2000 situation has changed. Russia chose to get back to its totalitarian and even more - autocratic regime. OK, it's their own choice what kind of regime they want to live in. But now they say the countries, which got out of SU, are going to reunite with Russia including those, which became the members of EU and NATO. I must point up, this is what they wish to be, but not what reality is. And here
paulharvey is right when he doubts the reliability of the new NATO members. That will depend on how we could resist against Russia's aggressive propaganda machine to assume the offensive. Meanwhile we are losing: building of a new NPP by "GE Hitachi Nuclear Energy" in Visaginas is stopped; "Chevron" is kicked off from the project of shale-gas extraction, although this company has won the contest; liquid gas sea terminal is still under attack. At the same time "Gazprom" is increasing the gas price so, that we pay the highest bills among all the European countries, although the export of food products to Russia (~20% of the total country's export rate) is smooth and correct.
You know, if the policy built within tens and hundreds of years was/is destructive and enemy oriented, how can you reload it into creative one?
All we have gained within last 24 years is the democratic system. I don't say we are perfect, but whatever political party is at power (either commies, or even pro-kremlin), the general trend doesn't change. How long will it last, the future will show.