Another question? when I slowly step on the brakes I always see the full output on the digital controller, if I set it to 7.0 then when I touch the brakes it says 7.0 is this correct? seems to me it would have to be this way as its hooked to the brake lite wire I think
As Chris laid out, Brake Light signal is a separate wire at the controller.
Display reporting on a digital controller I can't comment on, as I have an old analog controller on mine. AFAIK, all controllers have to be able to send a
variable DC voltage to the trailer brake magnets - to avoid overbraking or heat problems. On my old analog controller, I have a big slider pot that I can use to manually apply just the trailer brakes, and a smaller slider pot that sets the magnet voltage when I use the tow vehicle brakes. On mine, you can jack up the trailer, test with 2 people, and feel the difference in braking level on the trailer as you change the controller settings.
From memory, I think the minimum setting on mine was something like 6 or 7 volts on the trailer magnet wire.
A modern trailer brake controller will sense motion - the faster the tow vehicle is braking, the higher the voltage will probably be on the magnet wire. You'll have to read your controller manual, to see exactly how to test it's output when the vehicle is parked, and what to expect on the road.
I'd first verify all your wiring, making sure that the magnets are
not being fed from the Brake Light wire. Then test magnet voltage parked, as per the brake controller manual. If you have a DMM that logs Min/Max DC, connect that to each magnet line in turn. Take the trailer for a drive - I want to think that on the lower controller settings, you should see a reduced Max DC voltage on a test drive - but that's only a guess, as I haven't played with one of these new controllers yet.
Rgds, D.