Can you identify the part # per diagram I gave you? can you post a picture of partial dis assembly and point on the part. Metal part can not be damaged by penetrating oil but o-ring can be damaged. I use a bit of oil and let it soak. perhaps I put a bit of heat (very little) and use a small mallet with plastic head and try to tap the valve out. whatever you do, do as gently as you can. Make sure not scratch the spool and metal part as they will be ruined for good. if you need to take the rust off use finest emery cloth a nsome oil to remove rust on internal parts. Try some compressed oil if you can.
JC,