TomSeller
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With the first option I get a beating but, I have a new ranger. With the second option I get to develop a real connection with my soul mate, my best friend, (you know, those words that are used today) and exchange thoughts and ideas on important issues the come up from time to time in a marriage. Mind you, I will not have the new ranger, but I will much feel much closer to my mate.
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I guess it all depends on your relationship and financial situation. Money is not an issue for my wife and me and we have separate expendable funds. I don't question her expendable funds, she doesn't question mine. If money is tight in your situation and/or you need to be saving money, I would not buy an expensive toy without making sure you have an agreement and really need it. If you can afford the toy and it is not going to be detrimental to your relationship, you be the judge of that. How much $ are we talking about anyway?