My Grandfather died from injuries sustained to his chest from the steering column in his 1956 Ford. He was going 20mph in thick fog, crossed a T intersection and hit the opposing road bank head on. With a new radiator and some front suspension repair the car was still driveable.
Sorry to hear about your family being affected ovrszd. Pickups into the seventies still had this issue. Some things have come a long way, for the better.
Human factors today is a dominant issue. People now routinely walk away from 50mph crashes, so some of the hard-earned safety gains have been eroded by people taking chances today that they wouldn't in the past.
Rgds, D.