thanks for the info guys...I think that concept of the electro magnetic resistance increasing with current being drawn and thus making the magnets more difficult to rotate is the missing link in my understanding
So then this is less an issue of how big a generator you buy, and more an issue of how many appliances/devices you simultaneously run off of the generator?
Is there any scientific way to monitor the amount of load you are putting on the system? Or should I just shut down breakers when running off the generator and only turn on those that I am accounting for as I manually calculate load?